International Women’s Day: How much do you forget about them being a woman when they have a disability?

Model: @kathleenhumberstone
Photographer in picture: Shelley Richmond

On International Women’s Day, let us not forget that all our little girls will become women.
May we raise them strong and give them the tools to form valuable, respectful relationships and the ability and rights to enjoy them

But how much do you forget about them being a woman when they have a disability?

I mean, should Kathleen be described as a woman who happens to have Down syndrome or someone with Down syndrome who happens to be a woman? It’s not as straightforward an answer as you might think. Especially on IWD.

BTS of the shoot

On most days, just like on the day of that shoot, she’s definitely the former. But when it comes to having a voice, to fighting her corner, to processing the how’s and the why’s she might be shortchanged on the basis of her condition and/or her gender, well, she’s definitely the latter and that’s when I take over.

We all know normalisation comes through representation, which comes through diversity, which comes through inclusion, which comes through awareness. It’s a loop.

Model: @kathleenhumberstone
Photo credit: Shelley Richmond

When it comes to women in general, I’m confident they’ve proved themselves through all that process. Although they must keep vigilant and remain on that loop.

We went from seeing their gender before we saw their abilities, to  judging their abilities according to their gender, to simply judging their abilities.  The new generation doesn’t even notice the gender, they’re more concerned about the person and their abilities, as it should be..

Throw a disability, or a condition, or a difference, visible or not, in that delicate mix, and well, it’s a whole different kettle of fish. 

Model: @kathleenhumberstone
Photo credit: Shelley Richmond

Just like the sheer cloak of womanhood used to hide away women’s abilities and confine them to a well-defined code of conduct, the sheer cloak of disability seems to be stripping them of their womanhood.

Model: @kathleenhumberstone
Photo credit: Shelley Richmond

That’s why it is important to see women like Kathleen and the other models represented in such campaigns, so that they will remind or reveal to people that not only their condition or disability doesn’t make them any less of a woman, but that beyond it is the full range of feelings, emotions and urges of any other mainstream woman, the joys and sorrows, the longing and the disappointments, the need for validation and fulfilment.

Model: @kathleenhumberstone
Photo credit: Shelly Richmond

IWD has always been a great platform to expose some ginormous elephants in the room. This is one of them. So, let’s talk about it…

Models clockwise from top left: @niamhhhwoods @ree_valentine @georginawasdall, @monique_dior_zebedee_model @georginawasdall @niamhhhwoods, @ree_valentine @niamhhhwoods, @caralee.steel @monique_dior_zebedee_model @lindylou_zebedeemodel
Photos credit: Shelley Richmond
Models clockwise: @rollinfunky @lifegoalsonwheels @gemm_lw

Full campaign here: https://www.boredpanda.com/international-womens-day-photoshoot-models-with-disabilities-zebedee-management-zoe-proctor/

#WeAreWomenToo

Credits:

Photographer: Shelley Richmond http://www.shelleyrichmondphoto.co.uk

Art direction: Zoe Proctor https://www.zebedeemanagement.co.uk

HMUA: Jen Edwards and Kelly Richardson

Useful links:

https://www.downs-syndrome.org.uk/news/lets-talk-about-relationships-sex-launch-days/

https://www.josephineandjackproject.co.uk

https://www.choicesupport.org.uk/about-us/blog/cqc-publish-new-report-on-sexual-safety

https://www.mencap.org.uk/learning-disability-explained/research-and-statistics/sexuality-research-and-statistics

https://www.mencap.org.uk/advice-and-support/relationships-and-sex/sexuality-and-relationships-faqs

Instagram: @kathleenhumberstone

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